I know you wonder sometimes if the things that remind you of him make him think of you. Like the late night calls, the lazy saturdays, the random texts and the random hugs. I know you wonder if he ever thinks of you. And I know you don’t often, but once in a while, you hope they make him miss you too. I’m here to tell you that it’s normal, it’s okay. Just know that those feelings of despair will no longer be. Remember that when one door closes, another opens. You will love again. It is not the end of love when one fails. Remember that everybody had a first love they had to get over at some point in their lives to get to where they are now.
Time is the key, when you love someone and they’ve broken your heart, you must know when it is time to let go. As hard as this may sound, strength, courage and knowledge is gathered from a broken heart. No one promised that love would last forever, nor that it wouldn’t, it’s just a chance. Life is a chance. Love yourself and hope all is well, not only for you, but for that person as well. Never let bad feelings or experience change the person you are. No one wants to see a wounded person, so understand that you need time to heal internally. There is no set time on when this will happen, but just let it take it’s course. When the time is right, and you feel like you are ready to love again, don’t look for it, let it find you.
It’s not about getting over a person, it’s about feeling good about yourself. It’s about knowing that you are the most important and you need to be happy. When you accept yourself as you are and you love yourself for who you are then you will find that back. Never settle for anything less then what you desire and deserve. Love is all about timing, make yourself the best person you can be both mentally and physically. Once you heal, you will no longer waste your time on men who do not see you for who you are. You will see yourself as a beautiful women that has so much to offer the right man. <3
Everything is so complicated with you.
I don’t get how some people that are in a relationship have so many insecurities. Why would you worry about your girl/guy doing things behind your back when they chose you as their significant other? All you need is trust. If you can’t trust your significant other to do the right thing then don’t be in a relationship at all, period. Insecurities tend to push the people you love away and next thing you know, you get hurt because of your own insecurities.